Get more customers by offering an INDIRECT service

A common mistake by beginners is to market themselves directly as gigolos. That does not get them many clients.

To get more clients you have to sell an indirect service. Example: A guy offering massage service can get more clients for his gigolo business than a guy who markets himself as just a gigolo.

Why does indirect work better than direct? Because of a woman’s fears. Most women are not comfortable calling a stranger over to her house or hotel room only for intimacy. She thinks…what if I don’t like him in person? If I reject him will he go away quietly or will he be offended? Will he abuse me or attack me? Will he force himself on me? Will he blackmail me?

That’s why most women don’t respond to ads offering gigolo service (the only people responding to those ads are men, who want to sign up as gigolos. Of course they end up losing their money).

Women want to first see, hear and feel a man before she decides if she wants to get physically intimate with him. She is more comfortable first meeting the man in a non-sexual situation and check him out without any obligation. If she likes him, she can take things forward to intimacy, but if she does not like him she can say goodbye with no hurt feelings.

Successful gigolos market themselves indirectly. They offer massage, escort service, hugging, spanking, tourist guide service, male stripper service, pedicure, even pussy shaving… and many other indirect services. A woman hires the guy for his indirect service, checks him out during his work, and then decides if she wants to get intimate with him or just pay for the service and say goodbye.

Here are some common indirect services you can offer…

Massage therapist : While you give her a massage, she checks out your look, your voice, your grooming, your smell, the way you touch her, speak to her, your confidence, your body language. After the massage session (or even in the middle) if she likes you, she lets you know and you both can get intimate. But if she does not like you sexually, she pays only for the massage and says goodbye without offence to you or embarrassment for her.

Escort service : While you are escorting her to dinner or to a play or a movie or to a tourist spot, she checks out your knowledge, your sense of humor, your fashion, your body language, your conversation skills, your grooming, even the way you speak to the waiter at a restaurant. And when you finally accompany her back to her hotel, if she likes you, she may ask you to join her upstairs in her room for a drink. Or she can just pay you in the lobby for your escort service and say goodbye, without discomfort for you or for her.

Pussy shaver :Many women want their pubic hair (hair between legs) shaven but are not comfortable doing it themselves and usually get it done at a beauty parlour. You can offer to do this. While you shave her pussy, she checks you out, the way you touch her, your confidence, your skill, and at the end of the shaving session, she decides if she wants you to join her in bed or to pay you for the shaving and say goodbye.

Hugger / Cuddler : Some men offer non-sexual hugging or cuddling service. Women hire the guy for just some warm hugs or cuddles, it makes them feel good, and are willing to pay for it. After the hug/cuddle, she decides if she wants to take it further and pay for extra service, or she pays just for the hugs and says goodbye.

Spanker : Some women love to have their butt spanked by a man, they find it arousing. After the spanking session, she could take it further or pay just for the spanking and say goodbye.

Male Stripper : Sometimes women hire a male stripper for their kitty party or bachelorette party, or even for her private viewing in her hotel room. If you have the confidence to do a strip tease in front of a group of girls, you could try this. You dance seductively, gradually remove your clothes, one by one, until you are barely wearing anything, After the party, the woman can decide if she (and/or her friends) want to spend some time with you in ‘private’, or just pay you for the striptease and say goodbye.

Personal pedicurist : A pedicurist does women’s basic foot care and nail maintenance. You can offer personal pedicure at her home or hotel room. After she checks out the way you touch and hold her, the way you speak, your confidence, sense of humor andother qualities, she can decide to take things forward or just pay you for the pedicure and say goodbye.


These are just a few examples, there are many more indirect services you can offer. Any service where you and the woman can spend time together in a non-sexual situation and give her a chance to check you out and reject you without embarrassment, is a good idea.

It does not matter how weird the service, as long as women find it useful, it’s good. Example: A company in Japan offers “weeping boys“, men who offer their shoulders for women to cry on in the privacy of a hotel room. After the woman is done crying, she can pay the man for his service and say goodbye, or if she prefers, take it further.

There’s also female psychology at play here. She thinks you are actually a tourist guide but that she seduced you. Women love to be the hunter. She enjoys the feeling that she ‘hunted’ the man. She is shikaari and man is shikaar. 😉

By the way, you need to offer indirect services only once to a new client. Once she is satisfied with you and knows that you are safe, the next time she hires you directly for your gigolo service, no need for indirect service. 😉

Sure, you can also market yourself directly as a “gigolo” and you will still get customers, but it’s a small chance of success. Most Indian women do not directly hire a gigolo.

Important: If you are offering an indirect service, you have to be very good at it. If you are offering massage, you have to be excellent at massage. If not, she will be turned off because she will see you as a fraud, and fraudsters are not attractive. Btw, you cannot fake this. Women can tell from your touch if you know massage or not, so better learn it well and become good at it. Do not pretend to be a massage therapist if you are not good at it. And DO NOT try to get physically intimate with her, just because she got naked for the massage. It will turn her off and she will see you as just another horny guy who she could’ve got anywhere for free. She may even scream for help and you could get arrested for molestation. Similarly, if you are going to be an escort, be informed about the coolest events in your city. If you’re going to be a tourist guide, be very well informed about the historical info about the place she is interested in. If you’re going to offer a hugging service, learn the fine points of a good hug and how to avoid common hugging mistakes. Spending just a couple of weeks learning these skills puts you far ahead of all the guys who just call themselves gigolo and wait for customers who never come. In future posts, I will explain how to learn the skills required for these indirect services, using just google.

The truth about gigolo clubs in India

Here’s another story a guy sent me recently (English translation below)

Please upload my story on this blog, this is my personal true and correct story. में आज पहली बार अपनी कहानी यहाँ पर पोस्ट कर रहा हु, में राजकोट (गुजरात) से हु, राजकोट वैसे तो रंगीला सहर कहा जाता हे, मगर फिर हाल बिज़नेस मई लगातार दो साल से मंदी का माहोल बना हुआ हे, इसके चलते महीने की तनखा से घर का खर्चा चलना बहुत मुस्किल हो रहा हे,  दोस्तों के साथ आपस में गप्पे लड़ते समय एक दोस्त ने मज़ाक में यह गाइडेंस दिया की क्यों ना तू जिगोलो जॉब ज्वाइन करले, इस से तेरी समस्या भी कम हो जाएगी और पैसे भी मिलेंगे, आज काल इंटरनेट और न्यूज़ पेपर में  इसका विज्ञापन बहोत आ रहा हे, मुज़े उसकी बात सच्ची लगी, और इंटरनेट के माध्यम से मैंने ज्वाइन करना उचित समजा क्युकी, न्यूज़ पेपर वाला कदाचित परिचित निकला तो क्या होगा ये सोचकर ही इंटरनेट के माध्यम से एक एजेंसी में अपना मेल आई दी दर्ज  किया, एक या दो घंटे बीते होंगे की उसका फ़ोन आया, जोइनिंग करने के लिए उसने मेरा फोटो आई दी, एक फोटो और एड्रेस का प्रूफ लिया और कहा की आपको जोइनिंग करने के लिए डिपाजिट रकम पेय करना पड़ेगा उसके बाद आपका काम हमारे ज़रिये चालु ही जाएगा,  मैंने आपने  दोस्त (जिसने मुज़े यह सुजाव दिया था) के पास से मैंने डिपाजिट की रकम का इंतज़ाम किया और  डिपाजिट की रकम पय करदी, और चैन की सास ली की चलो अब एक दो दिन के बाद काम चालू हो जायेगा और पैसे की कमी में थोड़ी तो राहत तो मिलेगी, पर मेरे अंदाजा गलत निकला, पहले तो वह  आदमी और पैसे मांगने लगा और उसके बाद अब तो वह फोन भी नहीं उठाता और कोई जवाब भी नहीं देता, फ़ोन करते करते अब में और परेशान हो गया हु, वह नहीं तो पैसे लौटा रहा हे और, नहीं कोई जवाब दे रहा हे, ऊपर से इस पैसो की महामारी में दोस्त का कर्ज़ा कर दिया सो अलग.

इसलिए दोस्तों मेरी आपसे यह गुजारिश हे, की अगर आप जिगोलो एजेंसी को ज्वाइन करो तो सोच समज़कर करना क्युकी आपकी हालत भी मेरे जैसी न हो. इस लिए मैंने जिस एजेंसी का संपर्क किया था उसका लिंक यहाँ पे पोस्ट कर रहा हु,
http://xxxxxxxxxxx/MaleEscorts/gigolos-jobs-male-escorts-call-boys-surat-rajkot-agency/xxxxxxxxx (नाम : विकास आहूजा) Mob.No. : O7O9xxxxxxx
क्युकी आप भी मेरी तरह उल्लू ना बने, ये बात अगर किसी को अफवाह लगती हे तो मेरे पास डिपाजिट की बैंक रसीद हे, जो मई दिखा सकता हु.

और मेरा इस ब्लॉग के कर्ता को निवेदन करता हु की मेरी यह पोस्ट ज़रूर लोगो तक पहुचाये ताकि मेरे जैसे कोई उल्लू ना बने .


Thanks & Regards
Name : xxxxxxxxxx
City   : Rajkot
State : Gujarat


Here’s the English translation :

I had financial problems with my business, I had no money to even run my home. One day while I was sharing my problems with a group of friends, one of them suggested I could try to earn some money as a gigolo. He said he has seen lots of ads in the newspapers and the internet but has never tried them. I decided to try it. I wrote to one of the agencies. Soon a man called from the agency and asked for my photo ID and address proof. I gave him the info. Then he called me and asked me to deposit money before he starts sending me contacts of women so that I can start earning money. I could not afford the amount he asked so I borrowed money from my friend and deposited the money. But I did not receive any contacts. When I called him he asked for more money. Finally, when I told him I cannot pay any more money, he stopped answering my calls. Now, in addition to my previous financial problems, I have to return the money I borrowed from my friend. So dear friends, think carefully before joining a gigolo agency or you’ll fall into the same trap as I did.


(Website and phone number of the alleged cheat has been masked by to give benefit of doubt, since we cannot confirm the story. Btw, this is one of the hundreds of stories I have received about fake gigolo agencies.)


So what lessons can we learn from this?

Lesson 1 : Gigolo clubs in India are a scam. They don’t have any clients.

Think about it. If you are a rich woman with money to spend on a gigolo, why would you go through a gigolo club? What benefit is the club providing you? Does the club do a quality check to keep out sleazy guys so that only decent guys come to your hotel room? Nope, they will accept ANY guy who pays them the money (even guys with a criminal background). Does the club only accepts handsome guys? Nope, they will accept any guy, even dirty, ugly, smelly, badly dressed guys who make the payment. Does the club check if the guy knows how to satisfy a woman in bed? Nope, they will accept any man, even a virgin guy who has never ever kissed a woman before.

They will even accept this guy. 🙂

Think about it. If this ugly guy manages to borrow some money and deposits it in the club’s account, he becomes a gigolo?!  And he will get contacts of high-class, wealthy women? And he can go to the woman’s house or hotel room and she will open the door and welcome him in? And kiss his sexy mouth? 🙂

Just because he has paid the club?

Do you see how ridiculous that is?

Seriously now, think about it.

Why would a rich, high-class woman go through a gigolo club if it provides no benefit to her? Rich women are not stupid, they are smart. 


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Lesson 2 : Gigolo clubs are in business because their victims don’t complain

If you purchase an airline ticket from a travel agency but find that the airline has no seat reserved in your name, you will demand your money back from the travel agency, and if they refuse to answer your calls, you will make a police complaint. Right?

When guys pay money to a gigolo club for contacts of women and they don’t send them any contacts, guys should demand their money back, right? They don’t. They are afraid to go to the police because they feel this is an illegal racket. And that is how these fake agencies survive because they know that most guys don’t have the courage to make a police complaint.


Lesson 3 : Some gigolo clubs do send you contacts of women, but not the kind of women you expected

Some gigolo clubs will send you contacts of women after you make the payment. But do you know what kind of women? S*x workers. 🙂 These women will tell you on the phone “I got your number from the gigolo club. I will meet you, but I want you to give me a gift”. If you just wanted a s*x worker, you could have got her anywhere, why did you have to pay a gigolo agency? 🙂 Let me put just a little more salt on your wounds. The club guy took a commission from the s*x worker before he give her your number. You become the bakra for both parties. Sorry, but that’s the truth about gigolo clubs.


Beware of a new kind of scam

A guy wrote to me recently about a new kind of gigolo club scam. The club will say they don’t want any money in advance, but will only charge a commission when they send you an actual customer. Registration is 100% free. They ask for your details, name, photo ID etc. but they don’t demand money! You are happy that they work on commission basis. Then one day they call and say, “Congratulations, we have got you your first customer. She will pay you Rs.30,000. Our commission is 50% for first customer, 30% for second customer and 10% for all future customers. Please deposit 50% ie. Rs.15,000 in our bank account and we will send you the contact. Please do it asap, she is in a hurry, if you don’t pay in the next 2 hours, we will send her to another gigolo. You beg, borrow, steal and make the payment. And you don’t hear from the guys again. They also stop answering your phone calls. Same old story.


Don’t say you were not warned.

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Lessons from a suicide

Yesterday, a female doctor from AIIMS committed suicide.
News report here

She had discovered that her husband was gay.

But that is not the reason she killed herself.

I read the last post on her facebook page, and here is what I learnt. At the time of the marriage she did not know her husband was gay. When she noticed he never got an erection with her, she thought it was a medical issue and hoped that he would be cured some day. Then one day she discovered a fake gmail account on her husband’s laptop and found chat conversations with men from the underground gay community. She also found links to gay porn sites and gay porn videos.

She was shocked. But even then, she was willing to ignore his homosexuality and live a life without sex because she loved her husband. But the husband’s personality changed after his sexuality was exposed. He started humiliating her and her parents, she says.

After 5 years of marriage, she killed herself.

Here’s a portion from her FB post…

In spite of knowing this I decided to help him to b as a wife with him . But he tortured me a lot mentally .
And at last night he tortured me emotionally so I am unabl to take breath with him . And last Dr xxxxx (name of husband) I loved you a lot and I return you took my all happiness from me. You are not a human being you are a devil , who take away my life from me.
If someone in our society is like him please don’t marry to a girl to save yourself , you people by doing so not playing only with someone emotions also with a girl and her family’s life .
If someone had query about me I will undergo medical examination that I never had sex . Dr xxxxx I never wanted anything from you but due to your abnormal sexuality you thought you think I need sex from you it’s wrong. I just wanted to be with you accepting you because I loved you very much but you never knew importance of this . You are a criminal Dr xxxxx of my life .



What lessons can we learn from this?


Lesson 1 : Many gay males marry females for family ‘reputation’

This is very common in Indian communities where family reputation is more important than the happiness of the children. Only when the situation becomes really bad (like suicides) does it become news, and the public gets to know. Otherwise it remains a lifelong secret.


Lesson 2 : Love is possible without sex

The FB post of the woman shows that she loved her husband deeply even after discovering that he was gay. She was willing to accept him the way he was, if even though he would never be able to get it ‘up’ with her. But unfortunately he did not love her and wanted her to go away. I have several female clients with gay husbands. In most of the cases, it was the husband who hired me for his wife who he loved dearly. Typically the husband first meets me alone in a coffee shop to ensure that I am ‘safe’ and then has his wife meet me in a coffee shop to ensure that she ‘likes’ me (while he sits a couple of tables away). Finally, if all goes well, he hires a place for us to meet. Just recently, a gay husband hired a luxurious hotel suite in a premier hill resort near Mumbai. His wife and I were in the main room, while he was in the adjoining room working on his laptop. Never once did he walk into our room or disturb us. He was just there to make sure his wife was safe, because he loved her. After a few such sessions, when they are convinced I am safe, the wife directly sets up an appointment with me, and just the two of us meet, without the husband, in a hotel room paid for by the husband’s credit card. 😉 The husband is actually glad to find somebody trustworthy like me so that he does not have to be there every time his wife meets me.


Lesson 3 : Society needs gigolos

There are countless marriages all over India, where the husband is gay but the wife still loves him and does not want to separate. Do you expect this loving wife to spend her whole life without sex? 🙁 Many wives do indeed spend their whole life without sex. A few develop a lesbian relationship with a neighbour or a family friend. In some cases, a trusted relative takes care of the business of satisfying the wife. But this relative can sometimes cause embarrassment. One client told me about an incident in which the relative got drunk at a family function and started touching her in front of her other relatives. The husband had to tactfully stop him and move him away from his wife. He had to do it tactfully because the relative had the power to slut-shame his wife since he had already slept with her. These days many couples prefer to hire a trustworthy gigolo whom they can hire, pay and forget, without fear of embarrassment in social functions.


True story. Woman takes guy home, pays him, never contacts him again.

Guys often send me their stories.

Stories of success, of missed opportunities, of scandals caused by husbands and boyfriends 🙂 and other interesting stories of their experiences.

Here’s a story that a guy sent me recently.

I am sharing it because it contains some useful lessons for any guy desiring to become a gigolo.

First listen to the guy’s story, then we discuss the lessons.


I will share 1 incident that happened with me 2 year ago. i was a student who gave exam of 12th. In a night club a lady age 35-40 years came to me and said i am cute, can we talk? So we had a conversation. she offer me drinks n after half n hour she ask me to come with her in her car to drop her to her home because she is not feeling well. At home she offerd me cup of coffee n then she disclosed that why she bringed me to her home. As i was a student i got seduced by her talks n immidiatly i said yes i will have sex with her n we had gud time. then in morning when i m getting ready to leave for my home she gave me 5000 rs. i was surprised. then she said that “yeh tumhari baksheesh hai jo tumne mujhe acha feel karaya thanks”. she gave me a small kiss on my chicks…n i leave after that. i gone to that club for many times after that but i couldnt find her or any lady like her. then one of my frnd told me that these kind of job known as gigolo. by the time i m searching for how to become gigolo but didn’t get any update on it…plz sir contct me i seriously want to become a gigolo atleast meet me once….my no. 98xxxxxxxx plz. sir please call me….


So, a woman approached this guy, took him home, spent the night with him, paid him the next morning and did not ever contact him again.

What lessons can you learn from this?

Lesson 1 : Keeping customers is tougher than finding them

The most common question I get from guys is
“Where can I find women who are looking for gigolos?”  

Guys offer to send me money in exchange for my list of clients. Guys think that the most challenging thing about being a gigolo is finding customers. Guys are sure that there are certain types of women who hires gigolos and as soon as they find these women, their gigolo careers will get launched.

Not true.

Don’t send me any money! Even if I give you my client list, it is useless if she meets you and you don’t know how to project a masculine look or body language. She will just say good bye and go away.

Even if she likes your look and welcomes you into her home or hotel room, if you don’t know how to keep her satisfied, she will never contact you again (not even if you offer your service for free).

Successful gigolos are the ones who have customers hiring them repeatedly.

Note : Btw, it is not true that only a certain type of woman hires gigolos. Every woman is a potential client if a man knows how to present himself correctly. That’s no exaggeration. I am serious. Every woman is a potential client.

Back to the story.

So if the woman was not satisfied with him, why did she pay him the next morning? Good question. That brings us to lesson # 2



Lesson 2 : Women in India are scared of being slut-shamed

Slut-shaming is the act of insulting a woman just because she enjoys sex. In our patriarchal culture, men with multiple girlfriends are seen as heroes but a woman with a single boyfriend is seen as someone with loose character. Even an illiterate bus cleaner who lived in the slums of Delhi could dare to ask an educated, working, middle-class girl like Nirbhaya why she was out with a guy so late in the night. This happens commonly to girls in India.

Though the lady in the story was not satisfied with the guy, and knew she would never hire him again, she still paid him because she wanted him to go away happy. She knew he has the power to slut-shame or blackmail her if they ever meet again at a night club. She hoped that a cash gift and a kiss on his cheek 🙂 would reduce the chances of that happening.

Potential blackmailers, please note : Guys who blackmail women don’t succeed for long. Sooner or later the woman realizes that this cannot go on for ever, and she breaks down and confides to her family or the police. After that, the blackmailer is fixed permanently. My frank advice for you is don’t even think of blackmailing a woman if you prefer your limbs intact.


Lesson 3 : When a woman finds a good gigolo, she won’t switch in a hurry

Once a woman finds a good gigolo, she usually sticks with him. This is true all over the world. It’s even more true in India where it is a scary experience for a single woman to meet many strange men and try them out one by one.

My clients stick with me, they keep hiring me repeatedly. And not just women of Indian origin, but also white British women, Australian, Danish, Finnish, American and other nationalities. Even traditional Arabic and African women from orthodox communities. Some of them fly down to India for the sole purpose of spending time with me. They check into a hotel close to the Mumbai airport, where we meet. They then fly back to their country without even entering the city.



Lesson 4 : Indian women are now spending good money

More and more successful Indian women are choosing to stay single. They are in no hurry to get married and have babies. They want to first enjoy life. Luxurious spas, overseas trips, hot fashions and cool gigolos are some of the items they don’t mind splurging on. If the woman in the story paid Rs.5K for a bad experience, she would easily pay Rs.25K (or more) for a great experience.



Lesson 5 : Your marketing should make women feel 100% comfortable

Women know that guys often have Hollywood actors’ photos on their facebook profiles instead of their own photos. They know that guys often look different in real life. So imagine her fear when she thinks of calling a gigolo over. What if she opens her hotel room door and finds that he is actually an ugly tapori guy in tapori clothes (who had put Brad Pitt’s photo on his facebook profile)? What can she do now? 🙁 Can she just say, “Sorry, you look different from your photo, I cannot hire you” ? Will he go away quietly? Or will he take offence and force himself into the room? Will he cause a scene and embarrass her in front of the hotel staff? Or will he wait outside the hotel and stalk her when she steps out? Even if the guy looks OK, and she welcomes him into the room, what if he fails to satisfy her? Can she say, “Sorry, that was a lousy experience, I cannot pay you for this” ? Will he go away or insist on the money? Will he take offence and slut-shame her? These are the questions in her mind.

Btw, remember this : She can get a lousy experience for free, any time, with one of her colleagues or friends or relatives or neighbours or even a courier man. Why should she pay good money for a lousy experience?!

Because of this fear, most women only exchange emails with gigolos but never meet the guys because they are not sure if they will like the guy and are afraid of offending him if they reject him. Then, one day, she gets an email from a gigolo who goes out of his way to make her comfortable. He clearly communicates that he does not mind being rejected. He assures her that if she does not like the look of him or if she does not enjoy the experience, he will not accept payment, but will walk away with a smile. 🙂 This makes her comfortable. She feels this guy is not egoistic and would not be offended if she rejects him. This increases the chances of her wanting to meet him, and she soon moves from emailing him to personally meeting him.


Hope this post clarified some of your misconceptions.

Some of you may be thinking : Wait a minute, in this story, the woman approached the guy. How often does that happen?! Good question. It’s not very common in India for a woman to approach directly, but it’s not impossible. My guess is that this guy is unusually good-looking or the woman is unusually brave (or she was drunk). Btw, you don’t have to be blessed with good looks to be a successful gigolo. Some of my ugly students have become more successful gigolos than my good looking students. All you need to know is how to present your masculine energy with the right fashion and body language. Of course, most important, you also need to know how to satisfy women.


If you are just looking for s*x, you will fail as a gigolo

Most guys who want to be gigolos have only one thought running in their minds : I want to get laid, I want to get laid, I want to get laid.

They are going to be disappointed. Women don’t pay gigolos for s*x. She can get that for free anytime, anywhere in the world. She need not even pay for the hotel room, men will pay for that too.

So what do women pay a gigolo for?


Her pleasure, not his.

A man looking for s*x cannot provide that, because he is only interested in his pleasure, not hers. 🙂

Of course, a man who provides a woman true pleasure will inspire the woman to reciprocate. So ultimately gigolos do get laid, but only if he focusses first on her pleasure, not his.


Why I don’t accept Indian women

My rates are quite high by Indian standards. That’s why I don’t accept Indian women. They haggle too much. 🙂 They write me too many mails asking me to lower my price.

And they are justified in haggling. After all there are so many se*ually frustrated Indian guys waiting to ‘service’ them for free. Male neighbours show their interest, males from neighbouring buildings ogle from their apartments, delivery boys, courier boys and young men at shopping malls and in coffee shops, the sabzi wala, the shopkeepers, even the ‘holy’ man in charge of her religious place of worship. They are all waiting for a chance to get inside her pants. All she has to do is maintain eye contact for more than a few seconds with any of them, and they will take things forward, and she can have them for FREE.

I get lots of mails from guys who write things like
“Please send me some of your clients, I will pay you 50% of the fee”

Once I was in the mood for some fun, so I replied to one of these guys and said, “Sorry, 50% is not enough. If I send you clients, I want 100% of the fee, is that ok?”

He replied, “That is ok”

To continue the fun, I replied “You will have to pay for hotel room also. Is that ok?”

He replied, “That is ok”

When there are guys like these (and there are millions of guys like these) why should Indian women pay for this service? She can get it for free 24 x 7 x 365.

That’s why I only accept foreigners (goras) and NRIs because they don’t haggle. Sometimes I do accept Indian customers but only if she is a celebrity or a high net-worth personality.

But recently, I made a mistake. I accepted an Indian customer who haggles! 🙁

Despite a lot of haggling from her (for a whole month!), I refused to lower my fee and she finally agreed. We met yesterday.

Today I get the below messages, one after the other.


tnk u for meeting 🙂

i never paid any indian guys to b frank….

i only pay in usa and thailand.

indian guys r happy to be with me for free,
they also pay fr hotel room 😉

i can’t believe i paid an indian guy 🙁
u made me pay fr hotel also 🙁

u r too much 🙁

whn can i get yr next appt bet 20-24 oct?

pls confirm, i hv to buk hotel room.


I don’t think I will see her again. She’s not worth the headache. 🙁

I will give her the option of taking an appointment with one of my students.

Moral of the story : Successful gigolos don’t offer discounts. As soon as you agree to lower your fees, the client loses interest and respect for you, and she starts thinking why do I have to pay for this, why can’t I get this for free from a delivery boy.






Why I don’t train every guy who comes to me

I train men from all over India, and many from overseas. But I am selective. I don’t accept every man who applies, because the wrong man can misuse this skill.

When a woman hires a gigolo, she makes herself vulnerable. He can abuse this trust, shoot a video of her in an intimate position, and use it to blackmail her later.

I’ve heard many incidents of gigolos blackmailing their clients for money, especially after he stops being hired by the women. Here’s one of the few that got reported in India and here’s an overseas incident that got media coverage.

Few such incidents get reported in the media. Usually she pays him the money to protect her reputation, but only for a while until she cannot take it any more and finally confides in her husband, brother or friend who then ‘takes care’ of the gigolo using hired goons, or by rewarding a police officer to solve the problem.

But even though the blackmailing ends, the damage is done. She is embarrassed by the incident and her relationships are affected, usually forever. Which defeats the purpose of why she hired a gigolo : to have a good time.

One of the things I do when I interact with a prospective female client is to talk in a way that earns her trust, and that makes her feel that I am a cool guy who will never hurt her. That makes her comfortable about getting intimate with me without fear.

That’s why I am selective about the guys I accept for training. No matter how much money they offer me, I don’t hire every guy who applies. I talk to him, understand where he is coming from, and only then do I accept him.

This is a dangerous tool in the hands of the wrong man.

The revenge f**k

Often a client will hire you for a revenge f**k.

A revenge f**k is when a woman has random, meaningless sex
with an outsider, because she is pissed off at her boyfriend/husband
for cheating on her. She wants to get even by cheating on him.
She wants to have a revenge f**k. 🙂

Naturally she wants to do it with a guy who will not emotionally
cling to her
and cause more distress than she is already undergoing.

She wants to do it with a random guy she can f**k and forget.

So she chooses a gigolo.

And if you’re good at what you do, she will usually invent more
reasons to have more revenge f**ks and hire you regularly.   🙂






When you want to turn a client into a lover

The clients that you like being with, you can give them more frequent appointments. And the clients you don’t like too much, you can say sorry, all my slots are taken.

You choose the clients you want, they’re happy, you’re happy. Life is good. 🙂

But sometimes, even though you like being with a client, she stops hiring you, for one of many reasons. Either she was simply curious about gigolos and now her curiosity is satisfied and she is moving on. Or, she cannot afford your fees to hire you more often. Or she feels uncomfortable paying for such a service, because she is looking for a man who will be with her unconditionally.

There will be many clients who hire you a few times and then discontinue. My experience is that once a woman stops hiring you, she usually does not come back.

The choice is yours. You can let them go. More will come in their place. Or, if you enjoyed being with any of them, you can offer to see them for no charge.

Let her know that you’re missing her. Be specific about the body part that you’re missing the most. Her butt, breasts, clitoris, neck, the taste of her vaginal juices, her ears…whatever. Send her an email…

Subject : Missing your [body part]

Email body : Missing your [body part] like crazy. I want to to come over and chew up your [body part] into a royal mess and go away. And I am doing this for my pleasure, not yours. So there will be no charge. I have a slot free Thursday 7pm. Works for you?

For a woman who knows that you charge money for your services, it’s flattering to hear that you want to be with her, for herself. She realizes that you value her more than money and women love that.

Whenever I do this, the women have always been delighted.

Of course, I can’t ever charge them money again, but no problem, look at the benefits I get:

  • She’s a woman I love having sex with (it’s rare to find such a woman anyway!)
  • She feels obliged that I am giving her my valuable time
  • She has a meeting place* or will organize one


* If she could afford to hire you once, she usually has a place of her own or can afford a good hotel room. There are many successful, professional working women who have their own apartments or, if they’re expatriate women, they’re usually living in a 5-star hotel room all the year round. If  she doesn’t have a place of her own, and is living with her parents, ask her to organize a hotel room for your meeting. She will do it, after all you’re giving her your valuable time, for no cost. 😉



Get a hair trim before every client appointment

To be successful as a gigolo, being well groomed is very important.

She’s paying good money, she expects to be with someone who looks good.

If she wanted a random, badly groomed guy, she would be with her boyfriend or husband. 😉

Trust me, women DO NOT like to see hair on the back of a man’s neck. She won’t tell you that directly, but she feels “Ewwww…” every time she sees it.

You don’t have to get a full hair cut each time, just get your side locks trimmed and the back of your neck shaven. This is enough to give you a well groomed look. Btw, hair-cutting saloons do this for half-price. Get it done every single time you see a client.

Charge more

Charging a premium price has the following advantages:

  • You are seen as someone who is in demand
    When I increased my fee, business actually increased
  • You meet quality clients
    You meet intelligent, high-net worth women who are more fun to
    hang out with (and their hotel rooms are nicer too).
  • Less haggling
    Women who can afford to pay premium prices don’t usually haggle for discounts.
  • A few rich clients is better than many poor clients
    A few high net-worth clients is better than many kanjoos clients.
  • More repeat business
    High net-worth women tend to stick with vendors who provide excellent service. Once they find somebody excellent, they don’t usually try out a variety of vendors.

Don’t be shy to charge a premium.
You will be surprised at what women are willing to pay. 🙂

Never call a client to “just chat”, always let her call you

A woman hires a gigolo because she wants to have fun without strings attached, she wants to hang out with a man who will not cling on to her after the meeting.

If a gigolo calls his client and tries to socialize with her like any regular guy would, then there’s no difference between him and a regular guy.

Women are tired of men who obsess over them, call them, send them text messages and don’t leave them alone.

The difference between a gigolo and those other men is that a gigolo gives her the freedom to do what she wants. She has the freedom to call the gigolo when she wants, she has the freedom to forget him when she wants. She is paying you for this freedom.

But if you start behaving like those other desperate guys, why should she pay you when she can get one of those desperate guys for free.

Never call a client, no matter how much you miss her or want to talk to her.

Always let her call you.

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