If you do a good job, you will find some clients will hire you repeatedly (one client wants me to see her every day!).
Now this seems like good news at first, but it can also be bad news. You could lose her business if you’re not careful. If you do the same thing every time you see her, you could become predictable, she could get bored, and she may look elsewhere for variety. You could lose her business, sometimes permanently.
That’s why the smart gigolo will not repeat himself. He will keep things changing every time. He will keep her guessing about what will happen next.
Change the way you dress. Change your perfume. Change the way you pleasure her. If you wear fashion accessories (I suggest you do) keep changing them. Change the way you talk to her. It’s fun for her. And fun for you.
Note : This is not so important when you see a client for the first few times. But when a client hires you repeatedly (which is the best kind of client to have) just make sure she doesn’t get bored and you are assured of good money and she, a good time. 🙂
Offer her the option to pay you by credit card.
Even if you lose the 4% fee charged by the card processing company, it looks professional and makes you stand out from the others in the market.
Women are sensitive, and often make big decisions based on the little things.
It is not uncommon for HIV+ women from the western world to travel to a foreign country (like India) and seek men. Beware. Don’t indulge in high-risk activity with a client until you know her very well. Diseases are a reality out there.
A woman can tell how much experience you have had with other women from the way you behave around her, from the things you say and do, and from the things you don’t say.
If you let her know that you find her beautiful, she will get the feeling that you have not been with many women, which means you don’t have much experience, which makes her lose some respect for you, and makes her wonder if she took the right decision by hiring you. She may pay your fees (because she does not want trouble) but there is a good chance she won’t hire you again.
Never show or tell a client that you find her hot or beautiful. Don’t give her compliments on her beauty, don’t be nervous and fidgety in front of her. Always appear calm, act as if her beauty is no big deal, as if you have been with much more beautiful women.
So should you never compliment a client? Of course you should, but not on her physical beauty like all the other loser guys do. Instead, compliment her perfume, or the mole on her back, or her choice of colours, or the way a strand of hair always falls on her forehead (if it does), or her sense of humor, or the shape of her boobs, the shape of her butt, the fragrance of her body, the aroma of her vulva…compliment anything except her “beauty”, only inexperienced guys do that and you don’t want to look inexperienced.
The internet has its share of pranksters and weirdos.
Sometimes a person will write to you asking you for details of your services, fees and phone number. The person has a female name and a female email address firstname.lastname@example.org
You get excited about getting a new client, and give her all your info.
And then you find your phone number mischievously pasted on some website and you start receiving all kinds of prank calls. It was actually a guy pretending to be a girl!
What can you do to avoid this?
It’s useful to detect early whether the person making the inquiry is a woman or a man. That will save you time, effort and your valuable privacy.
There are some smart and free tools to help you. I cannot reveal ALL my tools on this blog (I don’t want the pranksters to get smart). I share them all in my training programs.
But here is a simple free tool that you can use right now. Find the IP address of the person sending you the mail. That will tell you what city the person is actually from. Now, if the city the person says they are from does NOT match the city the person is actually from, that usually means something is fishy. For example : person says she is writing from Delhi, but the IP address reveals the person is actually from Cochin. You can treat now this person as suspect and ignore them or give them misleading/confusing info that makes them go away.
Note : Occasionally, women will say they are from a different city, just to maintain their privacy, so I don’t immediately reject a person just because the city does not match the ip address. I may give the person some basic info (but not my phone number) and then based on their replies I may decide if it is really a woman or a prankster.
Finding their IP address is easy : Any good contact form can automatically get you the sender’s IP address. Here is one and it’s free : http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/simplemodal-contact-form-smcf/
Finding their city from their IP address is easy : You can do it here for free http://www.ip2location.com/free.asp
While giving her an oil massage, never pour cold oil on her skin directly from the bottle.
That’s a mistake beginners do.
Always pour the oil on your palm first, rub your palms together to warm the oil and then apply it on her skin.
Avoid the 14 common mistakes beginners do that makes them lose clients.
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If you do a good job as a gigolo, clients will often want you to stay back for longer than the appointment time. And if you do a great job, she will often beg and plead with you to stay a little longer.
It may feel flattering that a client wants more of you and you may be tempted to stay on, without charging extra. I have made the mistake.
Don’t do it.
The longer you stay with her without charging her extra, the less she will value you and your time, and less the chances of her hiring you again (even if she does hire you again, she will presume that ‘extra’ time is included for the same cost).