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6 questions every gigolo must answer
Women can find a man anywhere, anytime, for free! But it is not so easy to find a man who is skilled in these 6 departments. These 6 questions are what define a successful gigolo.
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#6. The PRESENTABILITY question
Do you have the grooming and style of an attractive man?
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A woman can find a sloppy man anywhere, but it is hard to find a man who takes care of his appearance.
Get a haircut. If you have long hair, wash and shampoo it. Greasy and unwashed hair is a turn-off. If you’re balding, don’t cover bald spots with sparse hair, that makes you look insecure and turns off women, better to shave your head completely and sport a cool bald look. Remove all unwanted hair like hair coming out of your nose and ears. Shave the carpet of hair on the back of your neck. Trim your chest hair, pubic hair, armpit hair.
While bathing, wash behind the ears, between toes, and all those areas that guys usually ignore. Are your teeth yellow and stained? Brush with whitening toothpaste, or see a dentist to have the stains removed. Keep your fingernails trimmed, filed and clean. Women notice dirty, broken nails and get turned off. Make sure your palms feel smooth and soft. If you have rough hands take a little moisturizer and rub it all over your hands.
Emolene cream is a good moisturizer. Get nice-smelling breath with a mouth freshener or chewing gum. If you have dental issues causing bad breath, see a dentist and have it fixed. Spray deodorant so you are smelling good. Wear a good pair of shoes and ensure they’re appropriate to the outfit (shoes and belt should be of the same color). Wear a fashionable shirt tucked in with neatly pressed pants.
A simple rule of thumb: If you are both out at a restaurant having dinner together, and she meets her friends, will she be ashamed or proud to be seen with you?
Btw, presentability matters not just outside the bedroom, but inside too. When you remove your socks, they should smell fresh not stink, and should not have holes, or sag from overuse. Your underwear should be colourful, sporty and fresh, not boring white, and definitely never dirty or stained!
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#5. The ABUNDANCE question
Can you walk, talk, move in a way that shows you need nothing from anybody?
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When most wannabe gigolos interact with a client, they appear like they need something from her. They behave as if they need her approval, need a kiss, need s*x. Needy is a turn off!
Example: If he is hired for an indirect service like massage, he shows a desperation to hurry through the massage and have s*x with her instead of providing just a great massage. If he was hired as a tourist guide, he is desperate to get physical with her instead of focussing on being the best possible tour guide.
Most men behave needy which is a turn-off for women. She can find needy men anywhere, any time. Her neighbour is needy, the boys in her building are needy, her dhoodhwala is needy, the baniya is needy, the dhobi, the courier boy, the building watchman, the gardener, her driver, the salesman at the mall, the waiter at the coffee shop… everywhere there are desperate men needy for s*x and waiting for a signal from her. She can get them any time for free. But if she’s going to pay money, she wants somebody special. She wants a man who needs nothing from her, not sex, not money, not approval. A man who comes from a place of abundance.
Women can detect needy behaviour when she interacts with you by email, SMS, whatsapp, phone. She can detect it when you meet for the first time. She can see it in the way you enter the hotel, the way you say hello, hold eye contact, shake her hand, hug her, the way you undress her, touch her, the way you transition from indirect service to seduction. She can sense it from your body language, your voice, your touch, your words. Example: If a client rejects you for some reason, can you cheerfully say “No problem, have a nice day”, turn around and walk away without taking it personally? Or when you transition from an indirect service to seduction, if she says she’s not interested in seduction, can you calmly go back to the service without sulking or asking her why? If a client hires you once but not again, can you avoid calling her to say you miss her?
How can you stop being needy and project abundance in the way you walk and talk? We do elaborate exercises for this at our training sessions, but here’s a simple tip: Count your blessings. Feeling gratitude for what you do have is a powerful way to banish neediness. Don’t have enough money? Feel gratitude that you are not in a wheel chair, and can at least move your hands and legs, and earn a living. Don’t get enough s*x? Feel gratitude that you can masturbate, there are handicapped people who can’t even do that. Like the famous quote, ‘I cried because I had no shoes, until I saw a man with no feet’. When you’re always feeling gratitude, the women you meet can sense that you are in abundance, that you don’t need anything from her, that you are complete by yourself. And THAT is attractive.
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#4. The FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY question
Do you understand what makes a woman think and behave differently than a man?
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Do you truly understand what a woman goes through in her life? The daily misogyny and sexual abuse many endure? Over 80% of women face sexual abuse at some point—are you aware of that? Or the blackmail some women endure? Can you even imagine bleeding for five days every month, and the physical, emotional, and social limitations that come with it?
Until you can comprehend these struggles, you’ll never truly connect with the essence of who she is.
Do you know why more women are choosing to stay single these days? They’re looking for a masculine man but unfortunately all they find is overgrown babies, mama’s boys. She’s not interested in such men. She does not want to live a life of compromise, pretending to have orgasms, pretending to be happy, like her married friends are doing. She’d rather stay single. Did you know, even women married to rich families are tired of their perfect lives? They live in a golden cage, have every luxury money could provide but they are dying to taste some adventure. Yes, literally dying. Many of the illnesses women suffer from is because they suppress their natural desire for adventure. Suppressed desires can lead to emotional stress, creating psychosomatic symptoms and health imbalances. This internal conflict adversely affects well-being. Prioritizing personal fulfillment is crucial for maintaining overall health.
Women are forced to do what society wants, what her parents want, and when she grows up, she is forced to do what her husband and in-laws want, what her religious leaders want while suppressing what she herself wants.
When a married man is caught having an affair, it is often seen as a foolish mistake and is typically forgiven. In contrast, when a married woman has an affair, it is viewed as a catastrophic failure, and she faces lifelong condemnation for betraying her husband and damaging the family’s reputation. This double standard can lead to feelings of shame and frustration for women.
Can you recognize the tears women conceal behind their brave façades? The beautiful rose they present to the world contrasts with the thorny stem they keep hidden from view.
Did you know that when a woman has an affair, it doesn’t always mean she doesn’t love her husband? Often, it’s because she craves the passion and excitement that may be lacking in her marriage. Love alone isn’t enough; women also need a healthy dose of lust.
Some of the most loving couples I encounter include impotent or gay men who hire me for their wives. I find many of those wives love their husbands deeply. However, just like men, women need more than lust—they require love as well. Men typically hire a sex worker simply because they are horny. Women, on the other hand, are more complex. They seek out a gigolo for passion, adventure, excitement, and even a touch of danger.
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#3. The TRUST question
Can you keep her deepest secrets, even after she stops hiring you?
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Can you keep her deepest secrets, even when she stops hiring you? I once got a strange request from a client. She would hire me if I let her keep the lights in the hotel room OFF. I would never get to see her face, we would have to do everything in complete darkness. I agreed. We met like that twice. She then trusted me enough to have the lights on. She turned out to be a famous TV anchor of yesteryears.
Another client. I entered the hotel room and was surprised to find a young lady with an eye mask. She said she wanted to keep her identity a secret until she could trust me. Next meeting, her mask was off. It turned out, she was from a well-known business family of a south-Indian state.
Another client asked me to come to a famous coffee shop at Bandra and sit at a table for 15 mins, have a coffee, and leave. She would be in the coffee shop but I would not know her. She would check me out anonymously and then let me know later if she wanted to hire me or not.
I have got so many strange requests like these, that I am not surprised anymore.
After a woman hires the same gigolo a few times, she gets comfortable enough to share her most intimate secrets. When clothes come off, so do the masks.
You’ll learn secrets about her family, her friends, her job, her relatives, her company, her boss, her products, her fears, and more.
Can you keep her secrets?
The no.1 fear women have about hiring a gigolo is that if her secret leaks out into the public, society would shame her forever. The fear is greater if she is a celebrity or a powerful woman because then, even the media will talk about it.
Some of those secrets can be quite sensational, especially if she is famous or a senior-level executive of a famous corporation or belonging to a well-known business family. You see her photograph in a prominent newspaper, she and her handsome husband attending a social event, and your friend remarks, “Wow, only such a handsome man could get such a beautiful wife” and you feel the urge to tell him, “The husband is gay. She told me last week.” But you don’t say it. Because you are a professional. You smile and change the topic. You will never share your client’s secrets.
But what if she stops hiring you. Can you still keep those secrets? What if you have a fight and you are no longer on talking terms? Can you still keep your mouth shut?
Or imagine a worst-case scenario: what if, in a fit of rage, she asks you to fuck off? Would you now be so humiliated angry that you’d want to teach her a lesson and use her secrets against her? Or would you still keep her secrets?
Just nodding Yes at my questions will not do. LOL! You could be lying. She won’t believe just your words. Women are sharp. She will know if you’re trustworthy even before she meets you, by observing the smallest details. From the way you reply to her whatsapp message, from the way you speak to her on the phone, from your sense of humor, from your body language, your eye contact, the confidence with which you respond to questions…and from the many microexpressions that your body reveals.
And if she feels the slightest doubt that she cannot trust you 100%, she won’t tell you that directly. She’ll just decline you politely.
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#2. The MASCULINE ENERGY question
Can you make a 60-year-old woman blush like a shy teenager?
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Women who hire gigolos are not looking for boys; they want a man who exudes masculine energy. Most adult males lack masculine energy.
What is masculine energy? It is a confidence and presence that makes a woman feel feminine and stirs her desire to surrender to your energy.
It has no connection to age, height, or muscle size. A thin, 20-year-old college student can make a tall, 40-year-old female executive blush like a teenager if he radiates masculine energy – and she will want to f**k him.
When you meet a client for the first time, do you stand at a distance, waiting for her permission to approach and come close? That shows a lack of masculine energy. But if you walk up to her confidently, take her hand, kiss it, and give her a warm hug without asking for permission, that’s masculine energy.
When you enter her 5-star hotel room, if you look around nervously as if you feel out of place, you’re not showing masculine energy. But if you ignore the surroundings, focus only on her, and maintain steady eye contact while hugging her, you’re projecting masculine energy.
While going out for dinner, if you follow behind her into the restaurant, waiting until she picks a table and sit down there, you’re not showing masculine energy. But if you lead the way into the restaurant, confidently choose the table, take her hand, and guide her there, you’re radiating masculine energy.
A successful woman is always surrounded by men who cater to her—managers, drivers, secretaries—all saying, “Yes, madam.” She’s tired of weak men who are always following her orders. If she’s paying for a gigolo, she’s looking for something different—a man who will dominate her.
In fact, powerful women usually love being dominated and told what to do. They spend all day giving orders, so they find it thrilling to take orders for a change. Some of my regular clients are women who run large companies with thousands of men under them, but when we’re together, I’m in charge, and that’s exactly what they love.
Before I even arrive at her house or hotel, I give her instructions on what to wear. Sometimes I’ll tell her to wear only a shirt with nothing underneath, or just a skirt, or to be in underwear and nothing else. Other times I’ll say, “Be naked with the lights off.” It all depends on my mood. And they follow my orders—happily. In fact, they look forward to it.
It doesn’t matter if she’s a 19-year-old college student, a 30-year-old uneducated housewife, or a 55-year-old corporate executive—when you exude masculine energy, she instinctively sees you as the dominant male, and she slips into the role of the submissive female.
Masculine energy comes naturally when you have been with many women. But suppose you’re new and never had a girlfriend, can you still project this energy? Yes. You act as if you have it, by convincing yourself that you already have plenty of women in your life, even if you don’t. Fake it till you make it.
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#1. The SEDUCTION question
Can you help a woman express multiple orgasms?
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Aspiring gigolos often mistakenly believe that being a gigolo involves simply talking to lonely women, hugging and cuddling them, listening to their problems, and making them feel loved while their husbands are away on business trips.
Wrong.
Women who hire gigolos seek passionate action, not just talking, cuddling, or hugging.
Can you truly deliver that? And no, I don’t want to hear about your pen*s size or “stamina”.
This isn’t just about intercourse. It’s about creating an entire experience from beginning to end.
Can you move smoothly from indirect service to seduction? Or will you rush through it, eager to get laid? Or worse, will you be so scared to transition to intimacy that you never reach the point of seduction at all? Can you touch her in a way that doesn’t make her uncomfortable, but instead leaves her craving more? (Tip: Don’t rush to touch her private parts—build anticipation. For example, when fondling her breasts, don’t grab them right away. Start by caressing around them. Take your time. The longer you delay, the more she’ll want you to go there). Can you make her whole-body tingle with deep pleasure and not just her erogenous zones? Are you an amazing kisser? Do you know how to use your fingers to reach places a pens never could? Can you move them in ways that caress hidden spots inside her vag*na she didn’t even know existed? Do you know how to combine your fingers and palm to give her the deepest orgasms she’s ever experienced? Do you know how to use your tongue? Do you know how to help her express multiple orgasms on demand? Do you know the psychological blocks that make it difficult for a woman to express orgasm? Do you know what to say and do, to help her get around those blocks and experience full-blown orgasms?
Just nodding “yes” doesn’t mean you know how. Having multiple girlfriends or being married for 10 years doesn’t mean you know how. The real question is: do you truly understand it? Have you helped women experience it? Did they love it so much that they’re coming back for more, filling up your time? And if they’re not, ask yourself—why not?
If you’ve mastered the art of seduction and can give a woman multiple orgasms, she will become addicted to you. Even if you’re too busy to see her, she’ll wait for your time, despite the fact that hundreds of gigolos offering ‘free’ services online would gladly meet her immediately.
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