Sometimes when I am online, I chat with guys. They share their stories, ask me for help with their gigolo journeys.
Here is one such guy. You can learn from his story.
The boy who was seduced by his mother’s friend
He was 16 years old, lived in a small North-Indian city. His mom’s female friends would often come over for tea. He called them aunty.
One of the aunties would always stare at him. This made him uncomfortable, which made her stare even more, because she enjoyed making him feel uncomfortable
When she got the chance she would sit next to him, and when his mother was not looking, she would keep her hand on his thighs.
One day his mother gave him a parcel to deliver to this Aunty’s house.
He rang her door bell. Aunty opened the door. She was wearing only a towel.
“I was having my bath” she said, “but come in and sit down”.
He entered the house and sat on a chair. She adjusted her towel and showed him a bit of her breasts accidentally, and then went into the bathroom to finish her bath.
After her bath, she sat down next to him. She asked him if he had a girlfriend. He said No.
She talked for some time. Then she started caressing his thighs. When he did not object, she kissed his cheeks, then his lips, then she gave him a blowjob, then they had sex.
After the session, she told him to come over to her house whenever he wanted.
He visited her often.
She was his first lover. Before meeting her he was a virgin, clueless about sex. She taught him techniques about how to please a woman sexually.
After many sessions, she introduced him to her friend, another aunty.
The boy then started visiting the second aunty, and had sex with her a few times.
Today he is older, has moved out of his small town and attends college in a large city. He requested me to send him client contacts. He is confident of being a successful gigolo because of his experience and training.
Do you think he would make a good gigolo?
Most of the people reading this would be sure he’ll make a successful gigolo. After all, he was taught sex techniques by a woman. What else does a man need, right?
But I was not so sure. Being a gigolo myself, I know this is no easy job. If a woman is going to pay, she requires a man with extraordinary skills. She can get an ordinary man any time, anywhere, for free.
I needed more information. I asked him questions.
Me: “Did the aunty enjoy what you did for her in bed?”
He: “I asked her, she said, “You are not bad, but you have a long way to go, you need more practice”.
Me: “After you got introduced to aunty # 2, did you see the aunty # 1 again?”
He: “No. Whenever I wanted to meet her, she asked me to go to aunty # 2.”
My doubts were confirmed. Aunty # 1 had dumped him. She introduced him to aunty # 2 because she wanted to get rid of him. Why was aunty # 1 not interested in him any more? Because he was a lousy lover. Like most guys he focussed on his own pleasure, instead of focussing on what pleased her. A satisfied female will never share her man with another woman unless she was no longer interested in him.
After some more questioning I found that aunty # 2 dumped him too.
Here are some key takeaways from this story for anyone looking to master the art of being a gigolo:
- What stands out in this story isn’t the boy, but the woman. She was a sexually liberated woman, unafraid to take new lovers. Women like her are rare treasures—bold, free-spirited, and willing to teach men to be better lovers. They invest time and energy into grooming inexperienced men, helping them develop skills. While many women wish they could be as fearless, few actually have the courage to be so.
——- - The boy? He was just lucky. It wasn’t skill or effort on his part. He was lucky she was his mother’s friend, lucky she took the initiative to seduce him, and lucky that she gave him his first sexual experience. Without her, he’d be like most other boys his age, a clueless, sexually frustrated virgin.
—————- - Have you seen people take beggar kids into a McDonald’s and buy them burgers and coke? Why do they do it? Not because they enjoy dining with them. They do it because…
a) They feel sorry for the poor kids.
b) They enjoy seeing the thrill on the kids’ faces as they enjoy food they’ve never had before in their lives.
The aunty felt sorry for the boy. She wanted to see the expression of thrill on his face. It’s called pity sex.
——- - When a woman wants a man for her own pleasure, she wants an expert, not a man who she has to teach.
——- - This is not the first boy these aunties have slept with. There were other boys before him, there will be other boys after him. The aunties did not enjoy it with these boys. Do you know what the aunties do for their enjoyment? They get adult men…neighbours, relatives, family friends. There are desperate men everywhere, available for free.
——- - If a woman who can choose from plenty of willing men for free is willing to pay for a man’s services, imagine how exceptional that man must be. That’s why not just any man can be a gigolo.
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Several times during our conversation he said “I enjoyed with the aunties”. 
I eventually had to cut him off and say, “I don’t care if you enjoyed being with the aunties—what I want to know is, did they enjoy being with you?” He confidently said yes, but I already knew the real answer: they didn’t.
Being a gigolo is a profession, not a hobby. The focus isn’t on your own pleasure—it’s all about the client’s satisfaction. If she walks away unsatisfied, you haven’t done your job right.
“Enjoyed with the aunties”—that’s typical male ego talking. Sure, it might make him look like a hero to his friends, but bragging about conquests is what average men do. And average men can’t be gigolos. This profession demands something beyond ordinary. It requires an advanced level of finesse and skill.
Unfortunately, this young man isn’t ready to be a gigolo. Not yet. Like the aunty said, he’s still got a long way to go.
