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I train men from all over India, and many from overseas.\u00a0But I am selective. I don’t accept every man who applies, because the wrong man can misuse this skill.<\/p>\n

When a woman hires a gigolo, she makes herself vulnerable. He can\u00a0abuse this trust, shoot a video of her in an intimate position, and\u00a0use it to blackmail her later.<\/p>\n

I’ve heard many incidents of gigolos blackmailing their clients for money, especially after he stops being hired by the women. Here’s one of the few that got reported in India<\/a> and here’s an overseas incident<\/a> that got media coverage.<\/p>\n

Few such\u00a0incidents get\u00a0reported in the media. Usually she pays him the money to protect her reputation, but only for a while until she cannot take it any more and finally confides in her husband, brother or\u00a0friend\u00a0who then ‘takes care’ <\/em>of the gigolo using hired goons, or by rewarding a police officer to solve the problem.<\/p>\n

But even though the blackmailing ends,\u00a0the damage is done. She is embarrassed by the incident and her relationships are affected, usually forever. Which defeats the purpose of why she hired a gigolo : to have a good time.<\/em><\/p>\n

One of the things I do when I interact with a prospective female client is to talk in a way that earns her trust, and that makes her feel that I am\u00a0a cool guy who will never hurt her.\u00a0That makes her comfortable about\u00a0getting intimate with\u00a0me without fear.<\/p>\n

That’s why I am selective about the guys I accept for training. No matter how much money they offer me, I don’t hire every guy who applies. I talk to him, understand where he is coming from, and only then\u00a0do I accept him.<\/p>\n

This is a dangerous tool in the hands of the wrong man.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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