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Sometimes when I am online, I chat with guys. They share their stories, ask me for help with their gigolo journeys.

Here is one such guy. You can learn from his story.

The boy who was seduced by his mother’s friend

He was 16 years old, lived in a small North-Indian city. His mom’s female friends would often come over for tea. He called them aunty.

One of the aunties would always stare at him. This made him uncomfortable, which made her stare even more, because she enjoyed making him feel uncomfortable icon-smile-o

When she got the chance she would sit next to him, and when his mother was not looking, she would keep her hand on his thighs.

One day his mother gave him a parcel to deliver to this Aunty’s house.

He rang her door bell. Aunty opened the door. She was wearing only a towel.
“I was having my bath” she said, “but come in and sit down”.

He entered the house and sat on a chair. She adjusted her towel and showed him a bit of her breasts accidentally, and then went into the bathroom to finish her bath.

After her bath, she sat down next to him. She asked him if he had a girlfriend. He said No.

She talked for some time. Then she started caressing his thighs. When he did not object, she kissed his cheeks, then his lips, then she gave him a blowjob, then they had sex.

After the session, she told him to come over to her house whenever he wanted.

He visited her often.

She was his first lover. Before meeting her he was a virgin, clueless about sex. She taught him techniques about how to please a woman sexually.

After many sessions, she introduced him to her friend, another aunty.

The boy then started visiting the second aunty, and had sex with her a few times.

Today he is older, has moved out of his small town and attends college in a large city. He requested me to send him client contacts. He is confident of being a successful gigolo because of his experience and training.

Do you think he would make a good gigolo?

Most of the people reading this would be sure he’ll make a successful gigolo. After all, he was taught sex techniques by a woman. What else does a man need, right?

But I was not so sure. Being a gigolo myself, I know this is no easy job. If a woman is going to pay, she requires a man with extraordinary skills. She can get an ordinary man any time, anywhere, for free.

I needed more information. I asked him questions.

Me: “Did the aunty enjoy what you did for her in bed?”

He: “I asked her, she said, “You are not bad, but you have a long way to go, you need more practice”.

Me: “After you got introduced to aunty # 2, did you see the aunty # 1 again?”

He: “No. Whenever I wanted to meet her, she asked me to go to aunty # 2.”

My doubts were confirmed. Aunty # 1 had dumped him. She introduced him to aunty # 2 because she wanted to get rid of him. Why was aunty # 1 not interested in him any more? Because he was a lousy lover. Like most guys he focussed on his own pleasure, instead of focussing on what pleased her. A satisfied female will never share her man with another woman unless she was no longer interested in him.

After some more questioning I found that aunty # 2 dumped him too.

Here are some lessons from this story that every student of the gigolo arts can learn from:

1. What is special about this story is not the boy, but the woman. She was a sexually liberated woman who is not shy to make new lovers. Women like her are a gift to the world, they are rare gems, rarely to be found. They love sex and want men to become better lovers. They will spend their time and energy to help young men become skilled lovers. Most women wish they could be bold like her, but few have the courage.
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2. The boy did NOTHING, he just got lucky. He was lucky this woman was his mother’s friend. He was lucky she seduced him. He was lucky she taught him sexual techniques. He was lucky she did everything…from touching him, kissing him, seducing him, teaching him about sex. He was lucky she came into his life. If not for luck, his life would have been the same as any other boy’s.
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3. Have you seen people take beggar kids into a McDonald’s and buy them burgers and coke?  Why do they do it? Not because they enjoy dining with beggar kids.  icon-smile-o They do it because…
   a) They feel sorry for the poor kids.
   b) They like seeing the expression of thrill on the poor kids’ faces as they enjoy great food for the first time in their lives.
   The aunty felt sorry for the boy. She wanted to see the expression of thrill on his face. It’s called pity sex.
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4. When a woman wants a man for her own pleasure, she wants an expert, not a man who she has to teach.
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5. This is not the first boy these aunties have slept with. There were other boys before him, there will be other boys after him. The aunties don’t get enjoyment from these boys. Do you know what the aunties do for real enjoyment? They get adult men. Yes, these women also have many adult men that they regularly have sex with. And these men are not gigolos, they are neighbours, relatives, family friends and they do it for free. There are desperate men everywhere, available for free.
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6. Aunties who can choose boys and men for FREE, if they have to pay a man for his service, can you imagine how good that man must be. That’s why not every man can be a gigolo.
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Several times during our conversation he said “I enjoyed with the aunties”. 

I had to finally stop him and say, I don’t want to know if you enjoyed with the aunties, tell me if the aunties enjoyed with you? And I know the answer: they did not.

Gigolo is a profession, not a pastime. For a gigolo, the objective is not to enjoy, but to make the client enjoy. If the client is not satisfied, you did not do a good job.

“Enjoyed with the aunties” That’s typical male thinking. Using this sentence has made him a hero among his friends. It’s a common male behaviour to brag about their exploits with women. But common males don’t make successful gigolos. This profession needs “uncommon” males, extraordinary males.

Unfortunately this young man is not ready to be a gigolo. Not yet. Like the aunty said, he has a long way to go.

There are sexually frustrated Indian men in every city, town and village.

This food delivery boy in Bangalore called his lady customer continuously, asking to be her friend. Finally she filed a police complaint.

This massage therapist in Delhi molested his client while giving her a head massage. She got him arrested.

This man in Pune took secret videos of his neighbour couple and asked the woman for sex, threatening to upload the videos on youtube. She filed a police complaint.

This security guard in Hyderabad raped a dog. Arrested.

The guy below in sunglasses was a security guard in Goa. He broke into a resident’s home, threatened her with a knife, tied her up, raped her and then killed her. Arrested.

India has one of the highest incidents of rape violence against women. There are lakhs of cases of stalking, harassment, eve-teasing, molestation, rape all over India.

My question for you:
When there are so many men in India desperate to have sex, women can easily find a man for free, so why would she pay for a man?
(see answers below)

आप केलिए सवाल:
भारत में जब इतने सारे पुरुष सेक्स के लिए बेताब हैं, तो महिलाये आसानी से सैकड़ों पुरुषों को मुफ्त में पा सकती हैं. ऐसी अवस्था में महिलाएं एक पुरुष के लिए पैसे क्यों दे?
(नीचे उत्तर देखें)

Best answer by Mitesh. His answer is highlighted in yellow below.

Do you know the dark secret that all men hide? Here are 2 news stories that reveal this secret.

1. Bangalore
Sukhbir Singh a jobless software engineer from Haryana flies to Bangalore to meet a girl he met on Facebook. She was a senior software engineer with IBM living in a posh residential complex. After he has s*x, he asks for money for his return ticket. When she refuses, he kills her in anger.
Note: He spent his own money (despite being jobless) to buy a ticket from Delhi to Bangalore. But after s*x, he wanted her to pay for his ticket back.
News story here

2. Kolkata
Software engineer in Kolkata befriends his female colleague, an American woman working in Kolkata. He spends money on her, buying her gifts, dinner, movies and hotel rooms. After having s*x, he asks her for money. She refuses. He begins to blackmail her, threatening to send their intimate pics to her husband in the US. She files police complaint for extortion, he is arrested.
News story here

Here’s the dark secret: all men lose interest in the woman immediately after s*x.

Before sex, men are filled with lust and attraction. He is generous with affection and compliments, will spend money on gifts. But the moment he ejaculates, his lust disappears and he loses interest in the woman.

This is normal. No matter how deeply you love your girlfriend or wife, it is normal to lose interest after ejaculation. But how a man handles this, tells you whether he is a sensitive high-quality man or an insensitive low-quality male.

• High-quality male
  When a high quality man loses interest after ejaculation, he will NOT show it. He knows that a woman feels vulnerable immediately after sex. He cares for her feelings, so he continues to engage with her to make her feel special even after his ejaculation, despite losing interest in sex. Only after some time will he disengage (and go to sleep or do some other activity like watching TV or check his mail etc).
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• Low-quality male
  A low quality man is like an animal. He does not care for people’s feelings, he follows his base instincts. As soon as he ejaculates, he loses interest in her, turns over and goes to sleep or puts on his pants and leaves (if it’s not his house) or gets busy with some other activity like watching TV or checking his mail. Or in worst case scenarios, like in the news stories above, he develops a hatred for the woman because he has spent money on her.

All women know this dark secret 

Women know this about men, from direct experience they had or through stories they hear from friends.

That’s why women engaged to get married are advised by her friends to never sleep with her fiance before marriage, as there is a good chance he may lose interest after s*x and cancel marriage plans. That’s also why prostitutes insist on being paid before sex because the man may not pay afterwards.

That’s why women fear hiring gigolos

Clients worry that if the gigolo happens to be a low-quality male, he could turn into a monster after ejaculation and hurt her physically or mentally. He could even resort to blackmail, to destroy her family relationships and her reputation in society. This is even more of a possibility in a country like India, where the Police hesitate to sympathize with a woman who voluntarily invited a man into her hotel room or house.

That’s why the few women who do hire gigolos in India will test, test, test until they are convinced. She will test you over whatsapp, test you over emails, test you over phone conversations.

Even when you meet in person she tests you in the hotel lobby before inviting you into her room. Even after you are inside her hotel room (or house), she continues to test you while you provide the indirect service.

What she is really testing is to see whether you’re high-quality or low-quality. If you fail her test at any stage, she won’t tell you but will politely say she is not interested and say good bye. If you were hired for indirect service, she will pay you for it and say goodbye and not hire you ever again.

You can’t fake this. If you are a low-quality male, don’t even bother getting into this profession. Only high-quality males succeed as gigolos.

How to show that you are ‘high quality’
I regret I cannot help you here. If you respect women, if you care for her feelings, if you love feminine energy, you’ll automatically pass her tests.

But, if you resent women and think they are second-class citizens who should be staying at home, you will fail all her tests, no matter how good-looking you, or how big your biceps or how big a pe*is you have.icon-thumbs-down

 icon-quote-left The SEDUCTION question:
Can you help a woman experience multiple orgasms ?  icon-quote-right 

There is a misconception among guys. They think being a gigolo is about talking to lonely women, hugging and cuddling them, and making them feel loved while their husbands are away on business tours. Wrong.

Women who hire gigolos are very clear. They want passionate action, not just talking/cuddling/hugging.

Can you provide passionate action?

Now please don’t send me mails about how big your pen*s is and how long it stays hard. This is not just about intercourse. This is about the whole experience from start to finish.

Can you transition smoothly from indirect service to seduction or will you do it in a rush because you’re in a hurry to get laid? Or will it be the opposite, will you be so scared to transition that you never get to seduction at all !

Can you touch her in a way that does not make her uncomfortable, but instead makes her crave for more touch? (Tip: Don’t directly touch her private parts, do it with some delay. Example: While fondling breasts, don’t directly grab her breasts. First stay away from her breast, fondle ‘around’ breasts, take your time, don’t be in hurry to touch her breasts. More you delay getting to the breasts, more she’ll crave for you to go there).

Can you make her whole body tingle with deep pleasure and not just her erogenous zones?

Are you a good kisser?

Do you know how to use fingers to reach spots that a pen*s can never reach? Do you know the different ways to move your fingers to caress spots inside her that she did not even know existed?

Do you know how to use a combination of fingers and palm to give her the deepest orgasms she would have ever experienced.

Do you know how to use your tongue?

Do you know the exact steps to help her experience multiple orgasms whenever she desires?

Do you know the psychological blocks that make it difficult for a woman to experience orgasm? Do you know what to say and do, to help her get around those blocks and experience full-blown orgasms?

Just nodding Yes as you read this, will not do. Telling me you’ve had 8 girlfriends will not do. Saying that you have been married for 10 years will not do. Question is: do you know how to do it? Have you done it for women? Did they love it? Did they love it so much that they are calling you for more, and you don’t have the time to see them all? And if they are not calling you, why not?

If you know the art of seducing a woman and giving her multiple orgasms she will be addicted to you. If you are too busy to see her, she will wait for you to get free, even though there are hundreds of gigolos offering their services for free on the net and are available immediately. 😉

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Here’s Question # 6 , Question # 5 , Question # 4 , Question # 3 and Question # 2 from earlier posts.

Click here to download the free book 6 questions every gigolo must answer.

P.S. Even if you don’t want to be a gigolo, following these tips will make you the kind of man that every woman dreams of meeting.

I once got a strange request from a client. She would hire me if I agreed to her condition of keeping the lights in the hotel room OFF. I would not get to see her face, and we would have to do everything in complete darkness. I agreed. We met like that twice. She then trusted me enough to have the lights on. She turned out to be a TV anchor of yesteryears.

Another client. I entered the hotel room and was surprised to find a young lady with an eye mask. She said she wanted to keep her identity a secret until she could trust me. Next meeting, her mask was off. It turned out, she was from a well-known business family of a south-Indian state.

Another client asked me to come to a busy coffee shop at Bandra, sit a table for 15 mins, have a coffee and leave. She would be in the coffee shop but I would not know her. She would check me out anonymously and then let me know later if she wanted to hire me or not.

I have got so many strange requests like these, that I am not surprised any more.

The no.1 fear women have about hiring a gigolo is that if her secret leaks out into the public, society would shame her forever. The fear is greater if she is a celebrity or a powerful woman, because then even the media will talk about it.

Which is today’s question # 3

 icon-quote-left The TRUST question:
Can you keep her deepest secrets, even when she stops hiring you? icon-quote-right 

After a woman hires the same gigolo a few times, she gets comfortable enough to share her most intimate secrets. When clothes come off, so do the masks.

You’ll learn secrets about her family, her friends, her job, her relatives, her company, her boss, her products, her fears and more.

Can you keep her secrets?

Some of those secrets can be quite sensational, especially if she is a celebrity or a powerful corporate executive or the head of a well known business family. You see her photograph in a prominent newspaper, she and her handsome husband attending a social event, and your friend remarks, “Wow, only such a handsome man could get such a beautiful wife” and you feel the urge to tell him, “The husband is gay. She told me last week.” But you don’t say it. Because you are a professional. You smile and change the topic. You will never share your client’s secrets.

But what if she stops hiring you. Can you still keep those secrets?

What if you have a fight and you are no longer on talking terms?

Or imagine a worst case scenario: what if, in a fit of rage, she asks you to fuck off ? Would you now be so angry that you’d want to teach her a lesson and use her secrets against her? Or would you still keep her secrets?

Just nodding Yes, will not do. You could be lying. 😉 She won’t believe just your words. Women are sharp. She will know if you’re trustworthy even before she meets you, by observing the smallest details. From the way you reply to her whatsapp message, from the way you speak to her on the phone, from your sense of humor, from your body language, your eye contact, the confidence with which you respond to questions…and from the many microexpressions that your body reveals.

And if she feels the slightest doubt that she cannot trust you 100%, she won’t tell you that directly. She’ll just decline you politely.

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Tomorrow & the day after will be questions # 2 & # 1. The toughest 2 questions.

Here is Question # 6 , Question # 5 and Question # 4 from earlier posts.

P.S. Even if you don’t want to be a gigolo, following these tips will make you the kind of man that every woman dreams of meeting.

Click here to download the free book 6 questions every gigolo must answer.