I train men from all over India, and many from overseas. But I am selective. I don’t accept every man who applies, because the wrong man can misuse this skill.

When a woman hires a gigolo, she makes herself vulnerable. He can abuse this trust, shoot a video of her in an intimate position, and use it to blackmail her later.

I’ve heard many incidents of gigolos blackmailing their clients for money, especially after he stops being hired by the women. Here’s one of the few that got reported in India and here’s an overseas incident that got media coverage.

Few such incidents get reported in the media. Usually she pays him the money to protect her reputation, but only for a while until she cannot take it any more and finally confides in her husband, brother or friend who then ‘takes care’ of the gigolo using hired goons, or by rewarding a police officer to solve the problem.

But even though the blackmailing ends, the damage is done. She is embarrassed by the incident and her relationships are affected, usually forever. Which defeats the purpose of why she hired a gigolo : to have a good time.

One of the things I do when I interact with a prospective female client is to talk in a way that earns her trust, and that makes her feel that I am a cool guy who will never hurt her. That makes her comfortable about getting intimate with me without fear.

That’s why I am selective about the guys I accept for training. No matter how much money they offer me, I don’t hire every guy who applies. I talk to him, understand where he is coming from, and only then do I accept him.

This is a dangerous tool in the hands of the wrong man.